Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

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Moody Publishers #ad - Pair this with the torn Asunder Workbook to for extra guidance in applying the book's advice to your marriage. Moody Publishers. A resource on marital infedlity for all involved, even onlookersWritten by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners.

Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair #ad - . With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples. Along the way carder also answers questions like:why did this happen? we didn’t actually sleep together, leaders, so is it still an affair? Can I trust my spouse again? Should I reveal a secret affair? What if my spouse doesn’t want me back? What do we tell the kids?This refreshed and updated edition is an excellent resource for pastors, and lay people.

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Torn Asunder Workbook: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

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Moody Publishers #ad - Take the first step today. Working with your spouse might be the last thing you want to do right now, but it’s essential to your long-term recovery, whether or not your marriage survives. Healing won’t be easy. Based on the principles in the besstselling torn asunder--a book that has helped thousands of people survive infidelity--this revised and expanded workbook offers five crucial services for hurting couples:Stabilizes the marriage in the initial crisis Provides structure for the emotionally volatile environment Brings closure to the "old" marriage—the marriage prior to the affair Establishes skills necessary for the "new" marriage pattern Answers the questions: How could you do this to me? Why did you do it?The Torn Asunder workbook is built around daily twenty-minute homework exercises, initiated by each spouse on alternating days for ten to fifteen weeks.

But the torn asunder workbook provides hope, encouragement, and practical advice on the journey.

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Anatomy of an Affair: How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them

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Moody Publishers #ad - With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way—and what they want the rest of us to know to save us the pain. Affairs are a very real threat, and they can destroy lives and families. This book is the revised edition of Close Calls 2008.

When it comes to adultery, never say, “It won’t happen to me. Just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. For this reason, anatomy of an affair should be on every church leader’s and marriage counselor’s required reading list, and in the home of every married couple.

Anatomy of an Affair: How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them #ad - Here he helps you make your marriage adultery-proof by showing you:How attractions can lead to affairsWays you may be vulnerable to affairsThe common ingredients of adulteryHow to restore intimacy to your marriageHow to make wise, protective decisionsMarriage is too sacred to be taken casually. Includes charts and assessments to understand and guard against affairs.

Dave carder, counselor and author of the bestselling Torn Asunder 100, 000 in print, is a sought-after expert on issues of adultery.

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Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity

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David C Cook #ad - Raw, transparently honest, the Shrivers’ story al. Over ten years ago, and after experiencing healing in their marriage, Gary and Mona Shriver experienced the devastation caused by adultery, they wrote this book.

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How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful

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CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform #ad - Learn what successful rebuilders know: * how to avoid the potholes that doom marriages after affairs * critical guidelines for the first hours after discovery * 15 essential steps for repair after betrayal * Skills to cope with your partner's obsessions and "triggers" * Ways to undo the damage from your lies * The keys to avoid prolonging your spouse's agony and yours * The difference between helpful and harmful apologies * How to rebuild your broken life, relationships, and integrity BACK OF THE BOOK Most unfaithful partners underestimate the breadth and depth of the fallout after infidelity.

Easy to read, even for the self-help book phobic! "Your material in How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair is ab¬solutely excellent. As an infidelity specialist for 25 years, therapist Linda J. Macdonald has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after an affair.

How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful #ad - How to help your spouse heal from Your Affair provides a practical road map for unfaithful spouses who wish to have another chance with their partners. If you have had an affair but have regrets and hope to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading this book! Or, if you are the injured spouse and your unfaithful partner keeps hurting you with his/her attempts to help you feel better in all the wrong ways, put this manual into your spouse's hands right away.

How to help your spouse heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance. I have counseled for twenty-five years and found it well-done, balanced, and accurate. Jim velez M.

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Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

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Harvest House Publishers #ad - She listened with disbelief to her husband, numerous affairs, Chris, a respected pastor, confess to pornography addiction, and the startling news that a woman was pregnant with his child. With raw honesty and intimate knowledge of pain and of god’s power to resurrect something new out of the debris of betrayal, and prayer support when deceptions surfacehelp the family heal from the grief and humiliationrebuild trust after porn, and the Bealls’ remarkable story will help wives and husbands trust God with their broken hearts and follow His leading, hope, and other addictions undermine a relationshipprotect a marriage from lies and unfaithfulnessrely on God to pursue forgiveness and move forward in new promisesCindy’s compassion, counseling, Cindy reveals how to:seek guidance, sex, grasp of God’s Word, and redemption.

Foreword by craig Groeschel, bestselling author and senior pastor of LifeChurch. Tv. A few days after an ordinary Valentine’s Day, Cindy Beall’s life changed forever. How to help your Spouse Heal from Your Affair.

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Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed

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Zondervan #ad - Even if your spouse will not participate in a program for healing, you can change your own life in powerful and permanent ways. Shattered vows is inspired by debra laaser's own journey through betrayal, her extensive work with hundreds of hurting women as a licensed marriage and family therapist, and her healed marriage after her husband's infidelity.

In this book, "do i want to get well?"how can i ever trust him again?is forgiving him really possible?how can we rebuild our relationship?the pain endured from sexual betrayal can break your heart, she gives you the emotional tools to develop greater intimacy in your life, and meaningful answers to the questions that arise amid the complex fallout of broken vows: What am I supposed to do now?Why should I get help when this is his problem?How could this have happened?Where can I hide my heart?When will I stop feeling so out of control?What do you mean, spiritual tools to transform your suffering, but it does not need to break your life.

Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed #ad - If you choose to stay in your marriage, tolerating, you have options other than punishing, or ignoring your spouse; in fact, extraordinary growth awaits a woman willing to deal with the pain of her husband's struggles with sexual purity. For any woman dealing with the fallout of infidelity, this sensitive and practical guide offers proven tools to help you make wise and empowering decisions as you deal with your husband’s sexual betrayal.

If you have been devastated by your husband's sexual betrayal--whether an isolated incident or a long-term pattern of addiction--you don't have to live as a victim. How to help your Spouse Heal from Your Affair.

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Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

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Atria Books #ad - Not just Friends. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage. How to help your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. The workplace and the internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs.

Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity #ad - One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of marital infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, if it happens, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent cheating and, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.

Good people in good marriages are having affairs.

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Healing from Infidelity: The Divorce Busting® Guide to Rebuilding Your Marriage After an Affair

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Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp #ad - How to help your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. Not just Friends. Based on over three decades of experience helping couples recover from betrayal and save their marriages, weiner-davis offers a step-by-step program to help readers:· Deal with traumatic feelings after the discovery· Respond to questions about the affair· Talk about intense emotions without arguing· End the affair· Offer apologies that are sincere and healing· Overcome flashbacks and painful memories· Rebuild trust and accountability· Make their marriage stronger than before the affair· Find forgiveness· Reconnect sexuallyThis book is filled with case vignettes of couples whose lives were shattered by betrayal but have eventually recovered and thrived.

Little compares to the devastation people feel upon discovering their spouse has been unfaithful. With the publication of healing from infidelity, the practical advice available to her clients will be made accessible to millions more who desperately want to move through the pain of infidelity and restore their love.

Healing from Infidelity: The Divorce Busting® Guide to Rebuilding Your Marriage After an Affair #ad - . Shocked, mistrust, devastated and overwhelmed, couples often hit stalemates as they struggle to get past intense emotional pain, resentment and never-ending arguments about the betrayal. From the bestselling author of divorce busting and the sex-starved marriage, michele weiner-Davis, renowned therapist, and TEDx speaker, comes a powerful blueprint for helping couples rebuild trust and mend their marriages following the crisis of discovery of an affair through forgiveness and beyond.

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After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful, 2nd Edition

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William Morrow #ad - For women who are struggling in their marriage—and for clinicians, psychology academics and readers fascinated by of popular psychology—this newly revised and updated edition of After the Affair is essential reading. After the affair is the only book to offer proven strategies for surviving the crisis and rebuilding the relationship.

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful, 2nd Edition #ad - . Dr. This is an extremely helpful and healing book—a gift to us all. Harriet Lerner, Ph. D. Author of the dance of angera staggering number of couples in America—about 70 percent—have been affected by extramarital affairs. Not just Friends. Written by Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph. D. This revised and updated version brings the groundbreaking classic into the 21st century, a nationally known therapist and acknowledged expert on infidelity, with a new section dealing with online affairs in cyberspace.

After the affair updated second Edition Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. Spring possesses a remarkable combination of clarity, wisdom, spirit, and heart. How to help your Spouse Heal from Your Affair.

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Surviving an Affair

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Revell #ad - Not just Friends. And it is one of life's most painful experiences for everyone involved--the betrayed spouse, the extended family members, the children, and even the lover and wayward spouse. Harley and chalmers describe the most common types of affairs, the reasons they begin and end, the best way to end them, and the best way to restore a marriage after an affair.

Infidelity is common, occurring in over half of all marriages. After the affair updated second Edition Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. But most importantly, they help readers survive the ordeal by providing them with step-by-step guidance that minimizes suffering and offers hope for rebuilding a loving and trusting marital relationship.

Surviving an Affair #ad - How to help your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. With all that sadness, why do people have affairs? And once trust is broken, how can a couple reconcile? In Surviving an Affair, Drs.

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